Intimacy Coach & Personal Confidant

I help generally happy and healthy people improve their romantic success by giving them a non-clinical, friendly, safe space to open up about their dating and intimacy concerns, frustrations, secrets, and insecurities. After assessing a client's needs, I will employ the most fitting techniques to help them achieve their goals. These goals may include learning how to communicate better with their partners, gaining fresh new ideas and perspectives to make their sex life more enjoyable, learning the art os sensual (but non-sexual connection) with their partners, reviewing and critiquing their dating profiles and style, or simply having a person who "gets it" offer an empathetic ear and uplifting words of support. 

Although single sessions can be provided, the best results come from a series of sessions. This provides clients with more time for finding their sexual confidence and discovering new tools they can use for more successful personal lives. 

As a client, your information will be kept confidential. Under no circumstances will I reveal your name or personal details that our discussions entail in any form of media unless discussed and agreed to in advance. Your comfort is important to me, and regardless of your gender, topic, or orientation, it is my aim to provide you with a safe and enjoyable confidant experience. 

 

In Person Coaching Options and Explanations: 

1) In Person Consultations

- Mock date

- Wingwoman

- Confidant, Consultant & Companion

In Person Consultations 

Valerie Baber Intimacy Coach & Conifdant

Whether we sit together in an office environment, meet in a more relaxed atmosphere, or even spend a day out and about in the city, we can spend our time however you legally desire. This could mean reviewing and recrafting your online dating profiles, experiencing a mock date, or just chatting about things you don't feel comfortable revealing to anyone else.

Below are some suggestions for how we can spend our face time together. Everyone is unique, however, and I am happy to arrange our time in a way that would best suit your personal needs.

My availability will change according to the city I'm currently in, but advance bookings can easily be made.  Or, if you're very eager to have a major mojo makeover, we can even discuss flying me to you. 

In person meetings are available individually. If you require more than 90 minutes, please make sure to adjust the number of orders placed during checkout. Meetings can be consecutively aligned. Alternatively, you may purchase single or consecutive packages of 3 hours time slots through the purchase page of this site. 

Should you not see what you're looking for here, please e-mail requests and inquiries to valerie@valeriebaber.com.  

Ex. 1) Date Coaching / Mock Date

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EX. 2) WINGS

 

 

 

 

EX. 3) CONSULTANT, SOCIAL COMPANION, PERSONAL CONFDANT

If you have no problem getting first dates, but for some reason, can’t seem to get them to commit to a second, you may want to schedule a mock date. Consider this a coaching session that’s more interactive than just a phone or e-mail appointment. We’ll actually go on a faux-date, during which I’ll assess everything from your communication skills, to dating etiquette, to appearance, all beginning with the very first impressions of your invitation and ending on a post date follow-up. Be prepared! You will receive an honest opinion and constructive criticism, so while this can be a fun coaching session, in order for it to be effective, you must be open to receiving critiques and willing to make changes.

 

As your wingwoman, I act as your social liaison and personal introduction agent. On the ‘field’ together, you can consider me your idea-giver, fun-maker, support system, advisor, and a second pair of eyes. I can be the woman that validates you, the friend that acts as a social-icebreaker, the guidance that provides you with confidence and ideas that will help you approach other singles, and the assurance-giver that reminds you of all the great things you’ve got going for you and what you should do more of. Conversations with strangers will become easier and you’ll be left with a new trick or two to add to your social repertoire. Like the mock date, this can be fun, but to maximize our time together, you must be open to trying new things. The best results will be achieved with openness to suggestions and willingness to step slightly outside your normal comfort level. 

                                                                                                           

Looking for an attractive, no-drama, open-minded running mate?  Perhaps you want to loosen your tie/let your hair down with a supportive and non-judgmental friend who can offer candid opinions and won’t take offense at the things you really want to talk about. I’ll be your supporter, cheerleader and no-nonsense cohort in no-limits conversation.  I can not escort you to the bedroom, however,  I will help you find pleasure in means that don’t come attached to strings, guilt, or salacious news stories.