In Person Coaching Options and Explanations: 

- Mock date

- Wingwoman

- Consultant & Confidante

- Couples Class Instructor

Valerie Baber Intimacy Coach & Conifdant

Whether we sit together in an office environment, meet in a more relaxed atmosphere, or even spend a day out and about in the city, we can spend our time however you legally desire. This could mean reviewing and crafting your online dating profiles, experiencing a mock date, or just chatting about things you don't feel comfortable revealing to anyone else.

Below are some suggestions for how we can spend our face time together. Everyone is unique, however, and I am happy to arrange our time in a way that would best suit your personal needs.

In person meetings are available for those living in the Los Angeles area.

Date Coaching / Mock Date

If you have no problem getting first dates, but for some reason, can’t seem to get them to commit to a second, you may want to schedule a mock date. Consider this a coaching session that’s more interactive than just a phone or e-mail appointment. We’ll actually go on a faux-date, during which I’ll assess everything from your communication skills, to dating etiquette, to appearance, all beginning with the very first impressions of your invitation and ending on a post date follow-up. Be prepared! You will receive an honest opinion and constructive criticism, so while this can be a fun coaching session, in order for it to be effective, you must be open to receiving critiques and willing to make changes.


As your wingwoman, I act as your social liaison and personal introduction agent. On the ‘field’ together, you can consider me your idea-giver, fun-maker, support system, advisor, and a second pair of eyes. I can be the woman that validates you, the friend that acts as a social-icebreaker, the guidance that provides you with confidence and ideas that will help you approach other singles, and the assurance-giver that reminds you of all the great things you’ve got going for you and what you should do more of. Conversations with strangers will become easier and you’ll be left with a new trick or two to add to your social repertoire. Like the mock date, this can be fun, but to maximize our time together, you must be open to trying new things. The best results will be achieved with openness to suggestions and willingness to step slightly outside your normal comfort level. 


Looking for a no-drama, open-minded running mate?  Perhaps you want to loosen your tie/let your hair down with a supportive and non-judgmental friend who can offer candid opinions and won’t take offense at the things you really want to talk about. I’ll be your cheerleader and no-nonsense cohort in no-limits conversation.  I can not escort you to the bedroom, however,  I will help you find pleasure in means that don’t come attached to strings, guilt, or salacious news stories.

Couples Class

This sensual but non-sexual experience is designed for couples and lovers of all orientations. Spend a fun, playful and erotic 2.5 hours with me as I provide you with advice on how to create a seductive environment as well as how to connect with your partner in a sensual but nonsexual way. You'll go home with goodies to try with each other as well as some ideas, inspiration and techniques that can help you strengthen your bond physically and emotionally.